30 Days of Truth-Day 8: Someone who has made your life hell or treated you badly.
Well, I have already told a few stories regarding some people who have treated me poorly, and I was trying to avoid this subject, but due to not having any more stories, except this one, I will just have to tell it.
I would have to say that in a way, my ex and the woman he left me for have probably wronged me even worse than anyone ever has. I let someone who had lost everything, even the love of her family at the time, move into my home and take complete advantage of my hospitality. I paid for her visa, her plane ticket, I didn't charge her rent, I clean up after them, and because I was the ONLY one working at the time, I paid for all the bills and food that the three of us ate, and do you think I ever asked for a cent in return, no. I'm just not like that. Anyway, after a while me and everyone else looking in noticed that the relationship between her and my boyfriend of three years was much more than just a friendship. I won't go into all the details, but lets just say thank goodness I paid for her ticket because I was also able to pay to send her and her belongings back. Well, even though she was back in England, their relationship continued, and I knew it. I am not as dumb as most people seem to think, and I am not naive. I am, however very strong. Turns out, things just weren't working the way I had hoped, and the moment he left, my world came crashing down, or so I thought.
In actually, if I ever have the chance, I will thank them. They made it possible for me to find true happiness. It was a bitter sweet circumstance, but I am actually very grateful. Because of them, I was able to reconnect with the love of my life. We married 5 months after my ex left, and I now realize that all the money spent, and all the tears cried were worth the happiness I now have. I never thought I could meet someone that makes me feel the way my husband does. Call me mushy or whatever, but it's the truth. He is my other half, and who knows where I would be if my ex and his current girlfriend hadn't done what they did. Yeah they put me through hell, yeah they wronged me, but it was for the best overall. They actually gave me what I had been searching for my entire life. I no longer feel anger or pain. Just gratitude, and even though they will probably never know, I actually appreciate everything they did, and I really hope they are as happy as I am. Being able to feel love like I feel everyday is something I would hope EVERYONE, regardless if they have wronged me or not, gets to feel at some point in their lives. So, if you're reading this, thank you, seriously and sincerely, thank you. TTFN <3
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